Nice Guys Finish Last. (Something for the Fellas.)

Time to shine some light on the nice guys out there. Ya'll are few and far between but I know you exist. What's sad is that the few that remain are a part of a dying breed. Many nice men think that being kind gets them no where but alone and played. And I can see why. Not on purpose (I dont think) but females tend to go for the not-so-nice-guy. The reason for that is...well I can't really say there could be numerous reasons why. But majority of the time the bad guy goes around acting like he's the nice guy so we often fall for it. I hear nice guys say all the time, "ya girls dont want a nice guy, ya want a guy that treats you bad and disrespects you!" I strongly disagree with that statement. Half the time ya'll nice guys come around and it's too late. We've already been fucked over by the guy pretending to be nice. Or we are already involved with that not-so-nice-guy.

What it really is about is PRESENTATION and ATTITUDE. I'm about to say something really fucked up but I don't care it's the truth. Ladies don't want a guy who comes off nice. Not saying you can't be nice, just not look like your nice. Women often fall for the sweet-talking, charming, well dressed, confident guy. And lets face it. Majority of the time these type of men tend to have a lot of bullshit with them. Of course, that's not what automatically comes to our minds. But in the same respect, there is something so captivating about a guy that we SHOULDN'T fuck with but we proceed to anyway.

Now for the nice dudes out there. Im not saying you should change the way you are or that there's something wrong with the way you are now. Any potential girlfriend should accept you for the person you are. However, its always room for improvement. Just take a step back, look at yourself, and ask this question, "What can I do to make me even better?" If it means being a little more aggressive, changing up your style a bit, or bringing up ya confidence level a few notches, no harm can come from that. A little bit goes a long way. ;).